Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Semester is finally over!
Hi everyone. I know it seems that I have dropped off the face of the planet. I got really swamped towards the end of the semester. It is over now and I am in Ga for Christmas. I was able to tell my brother about my abuse today. That was a hard conversation since we haven't been speaking since last summer. He was nicer about it than I expected. I am working on starting a support network for abuse survivors on campus. If it really reaches women and helps them I would like to start similar networks on campuses all around the country. I think it has potential not only to help women connect and feel less isolated by their abuse, but also act as an evangelism tool. Young women who would never go to church because of what happened and the shame they feel might come to a support network. I am not sure it this is a viable idea, but I need to do something. I feel like we have been silent too long, both as a society and as the body of Christ. Please pray for me this week. We always go to my Grandmother's house for Christmas Eve. This will be my first Christmas in that house since I told anyone about what happened. I know my abuser will not be there, because he is in jail, but it will still be difficult to be there. I hope you all have a great Christmas. Perhaps we can plan a reunion for early in the new year.
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I pray for you all the time Allison! I went through the same phase in my recovery last year as it was the first time I was around my family since the secret was out. Let me just say that you will only go through that akward phase once. Your next Christmas will be practically normal just like mine is this year. I know the apprehension and fear you are feeling...trust me, it will subside. Congrats on ending the semester! I got an A & a B for my two classes. Woohoo! Merry CHRISTmas!!!
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